During your reading you may ask anything you like or about anyone in your life past or present. Your Spirit Guides are here to help, but it helps to ask specific questions. When you ask a very specific question you get a very clear answer. The same goes when you ask a vague question - you get a very broad answer.
You can also ask any sort of question to someone that has passed on. Since many of us more than a few people on the otherside, it's best to request that individual you'd like to speak with to come forward. All I need to request they come forward for you is their first name. The same goes for passing on information to you about anyone in your life, I simply need their first name.
My awareness of Spirit began in my early teens when I started to communicate with my Spirit Guides through Automatic Writing. Many refer to this form of communication as writing without conscious thought. It's much like listening to your inner voice and writing down what you hear. If the information comes fast and furious you'll know those are you're Spirit Guides. Due to their high vibration, they speak very quickly.
I can recall being very young, maybe seven years old and I would try to move objects with my mind. Looking back I thought, well that's kind of odd? I mean where did I get the idea? I never did get anything to move by the way!
In my teens I loved to go to the library and seek out books on topics like the afterlife, parallel universes and reincarnation. I've always been fascinated with these ideas. So I would say – I was just born with this interest. One of the first authors I discovered, who also spoke to her Spirit Guides, was Ruth Montgomery. She was a very well known Washington D.C. newspaper reporter and wrote many books with her Guides using Automatic Writing. While developing my communication with Spirit I would write every day as they suggested and Ruth Montgomery did the same. She was a great writer and began this communication with her Guides with a good deal of skeptisism. That was and still is part of her charm. At heart, she was a reporter relying on facts and here she was having these in depth conversations with Spirit Guides! She couldn't see them but she came to believe. Her books are still available today and just as relevant today as they were 35 years ago.
A Psychic should be transparent through out all phases of your reading. He or she will inspire you to do what is right for you and your situation. We all have free will and can do as we please. The information that is passed on from your Guides in a reading, is always for your highest good.
A responsible Psychic will help you to believe in yourself and help you to understand the information that is being passed on by Spirit or those who have passed. A good Psychic will help and assist you in empowering you in your life, encouraging you to rely on your own Spirit Guides and developing a relationship with them.A real Psychic is up front ahead of time about all fees and costs....before your reading.
This is a great question, but keep in mind that if you have no desire to hear from someone who has passed on you won't. What stops that connection is your free will which is very powerful. You can focus on current matters in your life and/or speak with someone who has passed.
No, there is no difference at all. Energy is everywhere and that is what I read along with the help of your Spirit Guides. As you ask a question, I 'hear' your Guides answering your question and then pass that on to you. It works the same when I speak to someone who has passed. Since this energy is everywhere it makes no difference how you and I connect. On the phone, Skype or in person, the process is the same. Feel free to choose whatever works best for you.
The other side, heaven or what ever you choose to call it, is not like this earthly existence. There are no mundane tasks like paying for car insurance, getting the kids from soccer and family squabbles. Those that have passed will come through to me as they were in this life yes, but they do not carry earthly baggage with them once they leave the physical body.
Spirit Guides are beings on the other side that are with us from the beginning of our our lives until they end. They are always looking out for us and attempt to guide and assist us during this life. I say attempt because we all have free will and we are free to make our own choices. If you are not familiar with Spirit Guides, I sometimes describe them as that gut feeling, that deep inner knowing that something is right or NOT right for us. Be it a job, a dangerous situation or even a person we come in contact with. That 'feeling' is our Guides either warning us or trying to. Spirit Guides have had many physical lives, that's why they have a deep understanding of how complex an Earthly life can be.